Can I say "Merry Christmas" to my coworkers?

By Creator · October 12, 2026 · 1 min read

It depends on which scholars you follow. Some scholars say Muslims shouldn't congratulate others on religious holidays. Many others, especially scholars living in Europe and North America, say a friendly "Merry Christmas" to coworkers is simple courtesy, not a statement of belief. Either way, there are warm alternatives that everyone is comfortable with.

The stricter view

Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus as the son of God, a belief Islam doesn't share. Muslims love and honor Jesus (Isa) as one of the greatest prophets, but not as divine. Some scholars, including classical ones like Ibn al-Qayyim, say that congratulating people on a religious celebration implies approving its beliefs, so Muslims should avoid it.

لَكُمْ دِينُكُمْ وَلِىَ دِينِ "For you is your religion, and for me is my religion." Quran 109:6

The more lenient view

Many contemporary scholars, including bodies like the European Council for Fatwa and Research, say that greeting neighbors and coworkers on their holidays is part of good relations, as long as you don't join religious rituals. For them, "Merry Christmas" at the office is a social pleasantry, much like "Happy New Year."

لَّا يَنْهَىٰكُمُ ٱللَّهُ عَنِ ٱلَّذِينَ لَمْ يُقَـٰتِلُوكُمْ فِى ٱلدِّينِ وَلَمْ يُخْرِجُوكُم مِّن دِيَـٰرِكُمْ أَن تَبَرُّوهُمْ وَتُقْسِطُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهِمْ "Allah does not forbid you from being kind and fair to those who have not fought you over religion or driven you from your homes." Quran 60:8

Phrases everyone is comfortable with

"Happy holidays!"
"Enjoy the holidays with your family."
"Have a great break!"
When someone says "Merry Christmas" to you: "Thank you, you too, enjoy!" Most scholars see no problem in kindly returning a greeting.

The office party and Secret Santa

Giving gifts is encouraged in Islam, so joining Secret Santa is generally fine. At the office party, enjoy the food (check for pork and alcohol), skip the drinks, and feel free to leave before things get wild. Nobody will mind, and many coworkers will quietly respect it.

Keep the bigger picture

Whatever view you follow, don't turn December into a debate at work. Your kindness, honesty and good work will tell your coworkers more about Islam than any holiday greeting.

Key points

Scholars differ on saying "Merry Christmas."
Neutral greetings like "Happy holidays" work for everyone.
Kindly returning a greeting is widely accepted.
Gifts are fine. Skip the alcohol at parties.

Tip: Return the warmth in your own way. Share sweets with your team at Eid. Coworkers love being included in your celebrations too.

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